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Each one of us, throughout life, goes through moments, lives through experiences, and meets certain people that, inevitably, will leave a mark on us. You are a unique result of the events you’ve experienced, the people you’ve interacted with, and the temperament you were born with. Yet, from time to time, it’s natural to lose clarity on who that “you” is. Facing other people’s expectations and demands — particularly of those you love — can sometimes get in the way of embracing yourself.
Trying to change someone is one of the most difficult things in life to do. Every single person on this world is the way that they are for a specific reason and many times people aren't the way that they are because they want to be, but are instead a product of their past. It is already complicated to delve into the depths of our own minds and try to understand ourselves; how are are going to know what the intentions and motivations of others are? How can we know how that person is experiencing a given situation?
The habits and the actions we commit are influenced by others at times, but are ultimately a result of our own desires. We should be aware of our tendency to pass judgment. It’s only by listening to others and keeping in mind that their perspective is formed from their own story, their own experiences and feelings, that we can try to understand them. Sometimes, it is impossible for us to fully understand, and that may be due to our own story and our own experiences.
However, we can try to reach out to those that we feel need a change, but trying to force someone to change never works. People must be willing to change on their own accord. Always remember that beneath every exterior there is a person, a strong but sensitive soul that has its own wounds and scars, that has its own story.
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