A young man and his black smith father

A young man and his black smith father

A young man went to seek an important position at a large printing company. He passed the initial interview and was now going to meet the director for the final interview. The director saw that his resume was excellent and asked,
– Have you received a scholarship for school? The boy replied ” No”-

‘ It was your father who paid for your studies? ‘

-‘ Yes.’- He replied.

-‘ Where does your father work? ‘

-‘ My father is a Blacksmith’
The Director asked the young man to show him his hands.

The young man showed a pair of hands that were soft and perfect.

-‘Have you ever helped your parents at their job? ‘

-‘Never, my parents always wanted me to study and read more books.
Besides, he can do the job better than me.

The director said:-‘ I have a request: When you go home today, wash the hands of your father and then come back see me tomorrow morning.’

The young man felt his chance to get the job was high.

When he returned to his house he asked his father if he would allow him to wash his hands.
His father felt strange, happy, but with mixed feelings and showed his hands to his son. The young man washed his hands, little by little. It was the first time that he noticed his father’s hands were wrinkled and they had so many scars. Some bruises were so painful that his skin shuddered when he touched them.
This was the first time that the young man recognized what it meant for this pair of hands to work every day to be able to pay for his study. The bruises on the hands were the price that he paid for their education, his school activities, and his future.
After cleaning his father’s hands, the young man stood in silence and began to tidy and clean up the workshop. That night, father and son talked for a long time.

The next morning, the young man went to the office of the director.

The Director noticed the tears in the eyes of the young man when He asked him: -‘ Can you tell me what you did and what you learned yesterday at your house?’
The boy replied: -‘ I washed my father’s hands and when I finished I stayed and cleaned his workshop ‘
-‘ Now I know what it is to appreciate and recognize that without my parents, I would not be who I am today. By helping my father, I now realize how difficult and hard it is to do something on my own. I have come to appreciate the importance and the value in helping the family.
The director said, “This is what I look for in my people. I want to hire someone who can appreciate the help of others , a person who knows the hardship of others to do things, and a person who does not put money as his only goal in life”. ‘ You are hired ‘.
A child that has been coddled, protected and usually given what he wants, develops a mentality of ” I have the right, and will always put himself first, ignoring the efforts of their parents. If we are this type of protective parent, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children?
You can give your child a big house, good food, computer classes, time to watch on a big screen TV, but when you’re washing the floor or painting a wall, please let him experience that too.
After eating, have them wash the dishes with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you have no money to hire someone to do this it’s because you want to love them the right way. No matter how rich you are, you want them to understand. One day your hair will be gray, like the father of this young man.
The most important thing is that your child learns to appreciate the efforts, to experience the difficulties and learn the ability to work with others and get things done.

 

The last lecture

Dr. Randy Pausch died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book 'The last lecture" before then, one of the bestsellers in 2007. What a legacy to leave behind… 

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In a letter to his wife Jai and his children, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe, he wrote this beautiful "guide to a better life" for his wife and children to follow.
May you be blessed by his insight.

1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

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2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment 

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3. Don't overdo; keep your limits 

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4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does

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5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip

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6. Dream more while you are awake 

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7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

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8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

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9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

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10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present 

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11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you 

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12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.  Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

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13. Smile and laugh more

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14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

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 15. Call your family often

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16. Each day give something good to others 

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17. Forgive everyone for everything 

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18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6

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19. Try to make at least three people smile each day 

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20. What other people think of you is none of your business 

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21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

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22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do. 

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23. GOD heals everything 

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24. Do the right things 

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25. Whatever good or bad a situation is, it will change 

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26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up

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27. The best is yet to come

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28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful 

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29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it 

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30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

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While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with, people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.

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Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.

Sacrifice of a Japanese Mom

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