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 দারুন সব কথাগুলোঃ

সময়ের ব্যবধানে সব রিলেশনশীপ বদলাবেই। সে বদলটা মিঠে অথবা নোনা বা তেতো হয়ে যায়। তবে তেতো, নোনা বা মিঠেভাবটা নির্ভর করে আমরা রিলেশনশীপে কতটুকু কি যোগ করছি।

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অস্বস্তিকর কিছু সত্যি কথা

 নরম পেলে সবাই ঠোকরায়, অস্বস্তিকর কিছু সত্যি কথা

Life Isn’t Fair

No matter how hard you work or how kind you are, life doesn’t guarantee fairness. Bad things can happen to good people, and good things can happen to those who don’t deserve them.

Time is Limited

Life is fleeting, and you don’t have as much time as you think. You’ll only realize the value of time when it’s slipping away, so use it wisely.

People Change

The people in your life may not stay the same. Relationships evolve, and sometimes, people drift apart or change in ways that make them unrecognizable.

Everyone Will Die Someday

Death is a certainty, and it’s something we all have to face eventually. It’s an uncomfortable truth that we must accept to live life fully and without regret.

You Can’t Control Everything

You can plan, prepare, and try your best, but you can’t control everything. Learning to accept the unpredictability of life is vital for peace of mind.

Pain Is Inevitable

Everyone faces emotional and physical pain at some point in life. It’s a part of growth, learning, and resilience. You can’t avoid pain, but you can learn to cope with it.

Most People Won’t Care About Your Struggles

People are busy with their own lives and may not notice or care about what you’re going through. Don’t rely on others for validation or comfort—learn to find it within yourself.

Regret Is a Part of Life

No matter how carefully you make choices, there will always be things you wish you had done differently. Regret is a natural part of living, but it’s important not to let it control your future.

Your Mind Can Be Your Worst Enemy

Negative self-talk, anxiety, and doubt can sabotage your potential. You may be your own biggest obstacle, and changing that requires intentional effort and self-awareness.

Growth Requires Discomfort

Personal growth only happens when you step outside of your comfort zone. It’s painful and difficult, but the discomfort is where true change happens.

Not Everyone Will Like You

You can’t please everyone, and that’s okay. Trying to gain approval from everyone will leave you feeling exhausted and inauthentic. Accept that some people won’t like you, and that’s their problem, not yours.

Silence Can Be Betrayal

Sometimes not speaking up is just as damaging as saying the wrong thing. Silence in the face of injustice or inaction can make you complicit, whether in your own life or the lives of others.

Money Is Important, but Not Everything

Money can provide comfort and security, but it doesn’t buy happiness or fulfillment. True contentment comes from relationships, purpose, and inner peace—not material wealth.

Happiness Is a Choice, Not a Given

No one is happy all the time. Happiness comes from how you choose to respond to life’s circumstances. You have the power to find joy in the little things, even during difficult times.

Forgiveness Is for You, Not Them

Forgiving others doesn’t mean they were right or that what they did was okay; it means you’re choosing to let go of the burden that holding onto anger or resentment brings.

No One Owes You Anything

It’s hard to accept that no one is obligated to care for you, help you, or make your life better. Expectations can lead to disappointment, so it’s better to rely on yourself.

Your Perception is Your Reality

How you view yourself and the world shapes your experiences. If you see life through a negative lens, it will feel hard and overwhelming. Your mindset is what dictates how you respond to life’s challenges.

Facing these uncomfortable truths can be difficult, but acknowledging them is the first step toward living a more authentic and fulfilled life. Are there any specific ones that resonate with you or that you’d like more insight into?

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2 to 3 dates daily

 খেজুর কথন

By eating 2 to 3 dates daily, these 5 serious diseases can be completely eradicated, please know: Dates are rich in elements like calcium, zinc, fiber, iron and magnesium. Which protects us from many diseases.

Many people consume it with great enthusiasm. But they do not know its benefits. So let us know what are the benefits of eating dates.

(1) If you eat 3 to 4 dates in the morning and evening and then drink hot water, the problem of constipation goes away. Apart from this, acidity also goes away by its consumption. And the taste in the mouth also remains good.

(2) If you are troubled by the problem of low blood pressure. So boil 3 to 4 dates in milk and eat them in the morning and evening. By doing this, the problem of low blood pressure gets rid of in a few days.

(3) Eating 2 to 3 dates roasted in desi ghee daily relieves the problems of cough, sneeze, cold and phlegm.

(4) If you are troubled by the problem of frequent urination. So you can get rid of this problem by eating 2 to 3 dates daily. Apart from this, you can also drink date milk to cure this problem.

(5) Diabetic patients are greatly benefited by eating 2 to 3 dates daily. Because it does not have useless qualities. Which are found in cane sugar.

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 No one is truly useless in this world. The belief that some people are unimportant or less valuable is a false notion.

Everyone has a unique role to play, and with time and opportunity, their value will shine through. Even in difficult situations, there is always something positive to be found. Just like a broken clock shows the correct time twice a day, every individual has moments where they can make a difference. Appreciating others helps remind them of their worth, teaching them to embrace their value and make the most of their potential.

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আদল ও ইনসাফের নীতি গ্রহণ করা

 আল কুরআনের বাণী

হে ঈমানদারগণ! তোমরা আল্লাহর উদ্দেশ্যে ন্যায়ের ওপর স্থায়ীভাবে প্রতিষ্ঠিত ও ইনসাফের সাক্ষ্যদাতা হয়ে যাও। কোনো দল বা কওমের প্রতি বিদ্বেষ যেন তোমাদের এমনভাবে প্ররোচিত (উত্তেজিত) না করে যার ফলে তোমরা ইনসাফ থেকে সরে যাও। তোমরা আদল ও ইনসাফের নীতি গ্রহণ করো। এটিই আল্লাহভীতির সাথে বেশি সামঞ্জস্যশীল। আল্লাহকে ভয় করে কাজ করতে থাকো। তোমরা যা কিছু করো আল্লাহ সে সম্পর্কে পুরোপুরি খবর রাখেন। -সূরা আল মায়িদা, আয়াত-৮

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৩ উপদেশ আর এক পাখী

 A man caught a bird by the trap; and the bird said to him, 'My lord, you have eaten many oxen and sheep, and have slaughtered many camels; and you have not been satisfied; neither will you keep it with me.

Let me go, and I will give you three pieces of advice, so that you may see whether I am wise or foolish. The first piece of advice I will give you while resting on your hand, the second on your roof, and the third on a tree. Let me go, for these three pieces of advice will bring you prosperity.”

The first one, which must be said in your hand, is this: “Do not believe an absurdity when you hear it from someone.”

When the bird had spoken the first piece of advice into the palm of his hand, he was released and went to perch on the wall of the house, and said:

The second piece of advice is “Do not grieve over what has happened when it has happened, and do not feel regret.”

After which he said to her: “In my body there is hidden a huge and precious pearl, weighing ten dirhams. As sure as you are alive, this jewel was your fortune and the luck of your children. This pearl has escaped you, because it was not in your destiny to acquire it, this pearl that has no equal in this world.”

The man, like a woman who moans when she gives birth, began to cry out. The bird said to him: “Did I not advise you not to grieve over what has happened? Since it is past and over, why do you grieve?”

Either you have not understood my advice, or you are deaf. As for the first advice I gave you, namely, “do not believe an absurd statement,” O good man, I myself do not weigh ten dirhams. How can there be within me a weight of ten dirhams?

The man recovered himself and said, “Listen, now tell me the third piece of advice.” “Well,” said the bird, “you have made such bad use of the other two pieces of advice that I do not see why I should give you the third piece of advice in vain!”

Moral:

Giving advice to an ignorant obtuse person is sowing on barren ground.

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Story: Elephant, Goat and Bird

 An elephant and a goat lived in a forest. Both were very good friends. Every day they used to look for food together and eat together. One day they went far away from the forest in search of food. There they saw a pond. There was a plum tree on the bank of that pond.

The elephant and the goat were very happy to see the plum tree. Both of them went near the plum tree, then the elephant shook the plum tree vigorously with its trunk and a lot of ripe plums started falling on the ground. The goat quickly started collecting the fallen plums.

Coincidentally, there was a bird's nest on the same plum tree, in which a baby bird was sleeping and the bird had gone somewhere in search of grains. Due to the strong shaking of the plum tree, the baby bird fell out of the nest into the pond and started drowning.

Seeing the baby bird drowning, the goat jumped into the pond to save it, but the goat did not know how to swim. Because of this, she also started drowning in the pond.

Seeing the goat drowning, the elephant also jumped into the pond and saved both the baby bird and the goat from drowning.

Meanwhile the bird also reached there and was very happy to see her child safe and sound. She asked the elephant and the goat to live near this pond and plum tree. Since then the elephant and the goat also started living under that plum tree with the bird.

In a few days the baby bird grew up. The bird used to roam around the jungle with its baby and used to inform the elephant and the goat about the trees in the jungle which had fruits. In this way the elephant, the goat and the bird used to live happily and eat and drink.

Learning from the story

We should not do harm to anyone. If our mistake causes trouble to anyone, we should correct that mistake and help each other by removing the differences.

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