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 DON'T ATTACK HIS MANHOOD

"And you call yourself a MAN ENOUGH?, REAL MAN don't behave like this, you better change before I change you!." This is very wrong, don't do it… LADIES WE Don't change MEN! if they want to change, they will change because of LOVE. Don’t try to be a sculptor of water. For sure you can’t do that.

NEVER GET BACK TO OLD ISSUES

There is no reasons why you need to get back to old issues… like “remember what you did before?? I will never ever, ever forget that!!! Bla bla bla!!!” Once the issues are done and solve, it should be totally erased in your memory… never try to open a grave… well mannered woman never do that. Stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.

DON'T COMPARE HUSBAND WITH ANY OTHER MAN! NEVER EVER!!!

That's where jealousy comes from.

In your thought of correcting him, you might have been comparing him with other men.

"Don't you see what your friend is doing?" Can't you learn from our neighbors husband?" Girl, your husband is different. When you come to a point of doing these, then REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN HE STILL COURTING YOU and why you choose him and remember how you are head over heels in love with him.

AVOID CORRECTING IN ANGER.

Stop correcting your husband in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Never push your husband to the point of him to fight back and protect himself from a rascal act of yours. By doing that, you are like adding kerosene on a burning house. Instead, invite him for a walk, hold his hand and talk about the problem.

DON'T CORRECT HUSBAND IN PUBLIC

Avoid correcting your husband in public, it does not show you as a virtuous woman and will affect his self-esteem. If you do that in public, you will look like a mad dog without breeding.

DON'T CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN

Avoid correcting your husband in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your husband in front of your children will make them disrespect him. Remember HE IS THE HEAD OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD.

PRAISE HUSBAND FOR HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS

If he puts the curtain rod straight or your wall decor in perfect angle, appreciate that. You know how meticulous they are when it comes to putting wall decor. They really mean business when you request them to do that, with all the use of measuring tapes and torpedo level and rulers. An extra appreciation will make him love you more.

NEVER EVER CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR INFRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.

Stop criticizing him, especially in front of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper with a gently hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl, men have egos too. Their self esteem are easy to breakdown.

Correction is the act of offering better options.

Correction and criticism are never the same

LETS CUT THE SAYING “WHATEVER MY WIFE SAYS”

Girl, YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS! And so does your husband.

Every decision should be talked and planned with the both of you.

If he said your cooking is a little salty, NEVER WALKED OUT OF THE TABLE…instead apologize and offer other options. Give him sugar instead. and improve your cooking by watching cooking videos on you tube.

LOWER YOUR VOICE

Don't shout at husband. He is not your child. Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in a minimum volume tone.

DO IT IN LOVE

Correction should be done in love. Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistakes and so are you.